Firstly, this guy. Gregory J. P. Godek. Even his name is sort of screwy - why would you use your middle initials like that? But I digress. He sees himself as some sort of romantic guru, and has written a dozen books to spew forth his wisdom to the world. Happily for you and me, we don't have to purchase the books to get a taste... he gives some of his favourite tips right here on his website.